Black. Lesbian. Writer.

Back when PS was The Guest, I didn’t understand why I felt compelled to do right by her. My package of toilet tissue is long gone and she’s still around. We’ve bonded in a way that people do only when they’ve both experienced tough situations.… *Read the rest

Terrence Howard appeared on the View to promote his new album, “Shine Through It.” He explained that his love of music came first. His agent suggested he act as a way to make getting a record deal more smoothly. That’s when we saw Howard in “The Jacksons: The American Dream” playing Jackie in 1992. In the last sixteen years, Howard has been in movie videos (“Foolish” as Ashanti’s love interest) and more tv shows and movies than I have time to list.

The Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and the Ad Council have partnered together to start a new campaign called Think B4 You Speak. Props to Wanda Sykes and Hilary Duff for their participation. The core audience for this campaign is teenagers to cut down bullying and harrassment of LGBT teenagers in school. The thought is that if bullying and harrassment can be curbed, so will the amount of physical violence.… *Read the rest

Myspace. Downelink. Facebook. Glee…Whatever ones I’ve left off…Social networking sites are making things a little too easy to stalk someone.

I’ve been stalked before. By a crazy 6ft tall marine. Ok, maybe crazy goes without saying…But at least back in those days, he had to really put in work to find out who I was dating, where I was going to be, who my friends were…

Today, all of that information is sitting there right on line.

I mean, for some people it’s sitting right there on line. I personally make it pretty darn hard for someone to really learn … *Read the rest

PS heard about a song by Ne-Yo called Forbidden Fruit that was supposedly on his new album, Year of the Gentleman. i wondered how I would’ve missed hearing that song on the cd, especially since I’ve been boycotting the cd and finally listened to it for the first time the night before. The song was supposed to out him. I laughed about it because every time I see Ne-Yo, I always call him gay. If nothing else, he’s definitely in touch with his feminine side, a true metrosexual.… *Read the rest

I logged on to my messenger for the first time in a few days. I checked to see who was online. Saw a few people idling, so I continued with what I was doing. After a few hours, a message from Den popped up complaining about how I didn’t hit her up all day.

We had a brief catch up session about the weekend. She said that she thought about calling me around 2:30am on Saturday night (Sunday morning if you want to be technical). I wondered why she always wanted to call me in the AM hours. I used … *Read the rest

The thing about blogs is that they are often deserted.

I went to click on a few of my blogs on my blogroll and discovered one has been deleted…Another hasn’t been updated in weeks and the rest that exist within wordpress, I don’t read on a regular basis anyway…

Any bloggers plan on sticking around for awhile?… *Read the rest