Mar.2.2010 at 11:26 am | Alix B. Golden
Getting It In
As a follow up to The Sex Talk, I’ll tell you what’s changed…
Not much. My attitude towards straps is still slightly antagonistic. I’m in love with someone I trust though…and if anyone has ever seen her dance (*fans face*), you would understand that my curiosity about how the Lil Monkey would work a strap is perfectly normal.
We discussed it prior to me visiting. She wanted me to ask for it. I told her that a strap is something I would never ask for, lol… Might I remind you that I think penis is ugly? Plastic or real, it’s just not attractive… Anyway…
She said she had a new one. A small one. Me sized (cuz I’m small). She knew that I had had painful experiences before and wanted to make this experience an easy and pleasurable one for me.
When the time came to try this, we had both had a few shots, I had already orgasmed (I think I made that word up) a few times. I was wet, she was strapped, it was time to get it in. Literally.
It was a tight fit, even though it was a small cock. After a few strokes, there comes the pain. It wasn’t the kind of pain like you feel at the gynecologist when they stretch you too far. It stung.
I had forgotten about the stinging…
I am convinced that I have some kind of weird allergy to the synthetic materials that are used to make every strap I’ve ever tried. Its not too far fetched for me because I know back in the day certain condoms used to make me sting too.
So what now? I’ll try it again with the Lil Monkey. New strap. New material. This time is different from when I wrote about it before, because it was my idea. Because she can live without using a strap. Because I know that every experience with the Lil Monkey is an experience that will bond us instead of breaking us.
That’s whats up. Kudos for getting out there and trying it despite your preconceived notions about it. Hey, that’ the whole point of a relationship right? I think yall r gonna go far. Is it okay to say that without being really gay? lmbo
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I think we’re gonna go far too…
Well, I applaud you for trying it. The fact that you are even willing to try again even after your allergic reaction says a lot about how much you feel for Lil Monkey.
For me, The strap thing turns me off. I am not interested in that at all. Yet, if the girl I was with really wanted to try, then I guess I would. I would never ever request it though. Lol
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We are seeing so eye to eye on this!
my experiences have been different depending on the partner i have been with. my love that i have now,we tried it once,i think she was just curious to know how it would be because of the way i moved my body(i dance really well). but i dont think that she liked it much because of the material. i am going to try one that is a different material and smaller see if that works. its nothing that we just have to do but it was nice that she was open to trying it.
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There are a few I’ve heard of that simulate real skin. They are really, really expensive. Would hate to invest a lot of money into something that I don’t plan on using on the regular…
Yes, I, too, would be willing to try a strap with someone I truly loved who was determined to make me like it — though I have no attraction to straps at all.
It does sound like a possible allergy. Before springing for some kind of expensive, skinlike contraption you might hate anyway, why not try a lambskin (non-latex) condom on top of that little cock?
There is something about the idea of having Mary’s Little Lamb inside me that makes my cooch resemble the Sahara…
How in the hell is Madame Mary more drying than Mr. Latex? Well, there ain’t no accounting for taste, huh, and no one’s to blame for what sets the desert winds to blowing!
LMAO! Love you, Em!